The market determines value — not what you need, not what you want, and not what either spouse believes is fair. That is not a harsh opinion; it is simply how real estate works.
In London, Ontario, the average days-on-market for homes priced correctly from the start is significantly shorter than for homes that are repriced after sitting on the market, and each week on market during a separation increases buyer leverage.
Here are the three paths most separating homeowners take:
Path 1 — We Agree, Now Let's Sell
You and your spouse have aligned on selling. I meet with both of you, conduct independent market research, and present a documented price supported by current comparable sales. You review my 162-step plan, agree on the number, and we move forward with a controlled, professional sale.
Path 2 — We Need an Independent Number
You want a figure neither party can dispute. A certified appraiser provides an independent valuation for under $1,000 — often the most efficient way to remove price disagreement from the equation entirely. If one appraisal isn't enough, the average of two appraisals is a legally defensible starting point. I can work from either.
Path 3 — One Spouse Buys Out the Other
One party wants to keep the home. The buyout price still needs to reflect fair market value — not emotion, not assumption. The same appraisal process applies, and I can coordinate with both legal teams to ensure the valuation is documented and defensible.
A note on co-listing: In some cases, each spouse retains their own Realtor. Both Realtors co-list the property and divide the listing fee 50/50. This works when both parties want independent representation — though it adds complexity to coordination. I've worked in both structures.
A note on conflict: If disagreement has reached the point where neither path above is possible, that is a legal matter — not a real estate one. At that point, your lawyers take over. I'll simply say this: prolonged legal conflict is the most expensive path of all, and the one that benefits no one except the lawyers billing by the hour.
If you have a house, read my Home Seller Guide
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